Visiting my blog today is author Precarious Yates, here to talk about the difficult topic of loving the unembraceable. For another look at the subject, make sure you click on the link further down to check out her book.
-Annie
“Blessed are the merciful for they shall obtain
mercy.” Matthew 5:7
Sometimes God puts
people in our lives that test us right down to the core of who we are. They are
people we have to forgive over and over and over and over again. This one gets
right under your skin. That one pushes every button you knew you had and even
some you didn’t think you had. She makes you feel like you’re walking on
eggshells all the time.
When the Lord puts
someone like that in your life, rejoice. First of all, He trusts you with this
person. Second of all, there is some change in this person’s life that might
not happen if he or she doesn’t have that encounter with you. What a privilege
to partner with the Lord in that way! And third of all, there might be
something the Lord wants to change in your life, and that change wouldn’t have
happened without said person to sharpen you like iron sharpens iron.
Healthy relationships
need boundaries. But don’t use the excuse of boundaries to shoo away someone
that the Lord wants you to have in your life. Ask Him to show you His purpose
for this person’s presence in your life.
More than that, you can
ask Him how He views this person. While he or she may get under our skin, the
Lord knit this person together in his or her mother’s womb and He has plans for
their life. Somehow or other, you fit
into that plan!
Pray for the person
daily. Ask the Lord to show you new and unique ways to love this person. You
may even find that this person doesn’t get under your skin as much anymore, or
that you don’t have as many buttons that can be pushed as you used to have.
And when we come to the
very edge of our abilities, we can cry out to the Lord. Then He begins to love
THROUGH us, and that’s a beautiful and lasting thing indeed.
In the book UnEmbraceable,
we learn the story of Tamar and all the reasons why she walked around like a
stem of thorns with hardly a rose. Steadfast love causes a turnaround, but not
without a great deal of hurt, and quite a few of her Christian friends asking
“WHY, ME, GOD? WHY ME?!!” In the end, Tamar, the one who is unembraceable,
isn’t the only one who changes.
BIO: Precarious Yates
studied the plight of and worked toward the abolition of modern slavery for
over a decade before sitting down to write Revelation Special Ops. Yates spent
several years overseas as a missionary in Ireland, and also did missions work
in India and the Philippines. Her passion for literature has become her means
of further educating young adults of the realities of modern slavery, while
producing hope through the power of Christ Jesus in us.
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